Of Love and Eggs (Rindu kami padamu)
Directed by Garin Nugroho
In Bahasa Indonesia, with English subtitles
Indonesia, 2004, 90 minutes
“My
market is full of stories,” says the little girl, “just like soap operas
on television . . . some funny, some strange, some sad.” In this small
market in Jakarta, most of the stories begin with loss. The girl is
deaf; she lost her family when her home was destroyed. A friend at
school lost her mother because of her father’s gambling and abuse. A boy
and his older brother who lost their parents struggle to carry on the
family business. But amidst the despair, the children maintain a sense
of hope: the girl who lost her family sends a wish for a dome for the
mosque by carrier pigeon; her friend protects a prayer rug, so it will
be ready when her mother returns. The boy’s daydreams lead him to a
young woman he calls Cantik – pretty – for whom he carries packages and
cooks noodles with eggs; maybe someday he will call her “Mom”. Ramadan,
the month of fasting and prayer, is at an end, and everyone in the
market is preparing for Lebaran, the Holidays. Most Indonesians travel
to visit family for Lebaran, leaving their jobs in the cities to return
their home villages. However, for the children of the marketplace, the
holidays could be hardest: a carrier pigeon lands in a stationer’s
stall, ruining the greeting cards set out for display; a prayer rug
disappears while the little girl sleeps; and the relationship between
the boy and his brother grows tense. But during Lebaran, nothing is
truly lost: a father is reunited with his daughter, a man has a change
of heart and prays for his wife’s return, and the older brother orders a
new stamp to mark his eggs – in the shape of a heart.
“For each
new film, he seems to invent a new style, or even several new styles.
Nugroho keeps rediscovering film . . . For his latest film, Nugroho
consciously chose for a simple, fresh and comic style that is
reminiscent of the heyday of Egyptian comedy.”
-Gertjan
Zuilhof, International Film Festival Rotterdam,
“A gentle
comedy of hopes and absences, Indonesian director Garin Nugroho’s latest
film is a touching meditation on the idea that everyday expressions of
love form the true basis of religious spirit and community . . . Nugroho
weaves their stories into the hopes and frustrations of other characters
in the market – a lovingly crafted studio set – giving his realistic
fairy tale a rich sense of lives interconnected, and a world where even
the smallest gestures of affection can bring welcome grace.”
-Steve Mockus, San Francisco
International Film Festival,
“As
memorable for its humanist warmth as it is for Nugroho’s deceptively
light comedic touch . . . A fine film.”
-Wally
Hammond, Time Out London
2005
Best Film Award,
7th Festival of Asian Cinema, (India)